Norton: The gift of encouragement
As we enter this special season of appreciation and gratitude marked by the thankfulness of Thanksgiving and the hope, peace, love, and joy of Christmas, many of us reflect on the gifts we exchange with loved ones. But this year, what if we embraced a different kind of gift that costs nothing but holds immeasurable value? What if we gave the gift of encouragement?
Imagine receiving a call from someone you trust, love and respect. They call to tell you how much you mean to them, to express their admiration and appreciation for your presence in their lives, and to thank you for your love, advice and support. Picture how that would feel. Even now, just reading these words, you may feel a warm glow, a sense of joy, and affirmation.
Now flip the scenario. Imagine being the one to make that call, to reach out to a friend, family member, or colleague with a heartfelt message of encouragement. Envision their reaction and the connection that strengthens. That same warm glow you imagined feeling. You might experience it as intensely when giving encouragement as when receiving it.
Over several years, our world has experienced division fueled by contentious debates and heated arguments. Families and friendships have been strained, sometimes broken, over differences of opinion or perspective. In such an environment, words can become weapons used to criticize, dismiss or tear down.
But words can also build. They can inspire, uplift and heal. They are the tools of either demolition or construction. We have the power to choose. In this season that emphasizes love and joy, what if we all consciously choose to be builders, using our words to encourage and uplift those around us?
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Giving the gift of encouragement is not always easy. It requires courage, sincerity and a foundation of kindness and grace. It asks us to set aside ego, bitterness or judgment and offer words affirming and strengthening others.
Encouragement is powerful because it meets people where they are. It acknowledges their struggles, celebrates their victories, and reassures them of their value. Whether someone is pursuing a dream, overcoming a challenge, or simply navigating the complexities of daily life, encouragement can provide the boost they need to keep going.
It’s easy to criticize or dismiss others. But offering genuine encouragement takes effort and a sincere heart. It requires us to step into a construction zone, rolling up our sleeves to build others up rather than tearing them down.
Encouraging doesn’t have to be complicated or grand. Small, thoughtful gestures can have a profound impact. Here are a few ideas:
Reach out to someone and express gratitude for their presence in your life. Tell them how much they mean to you and why you admire them for their creativity or courage. A handwritten letter or card can be a treasure someone keeps for years. Take the time to articulate your appreciation and encouragement.
If someone is pursuing a goal or facing a challenge, acknowledge their effort and cheer them on. Sometimes, simply listening and being there for someone is the most tremendous encouragement you can offer.
Encouragement is not a one-time gift; it has a ripple effect. When we lift others, they are often inspired to do the same for someone else. A single word of encouragement can create a chain reaction, spreading positivity far beyond its initial source.
As we reflect on the spirit of this season, let us remember that encouragement embodies the essence of hope, peace, love and joy. It strengthens relationships, heals wounds, and brings light into the darkest corners of our lives.
So, this year, alongside the physical gifts we may exchange, let’s give the gift of encouragement. It costs nothing but can change everything. Let’s use our words to build, lift and inspire. As we give this gift to others, we may find that it is also the greatest gift we give ourselves.
May this season be one of connection, kindness and encouragement. I would love to hear your encourager story at gotonorton@gmail.com. Remember that we all have something to give one another, the gift of our true feelings, and that will make it a better-than-good life.
Michael Norton is an author, personal and professional coach, consultant, trainer, encourager, and motivator of individuals and businesses, working with organizations and associations across multiple industries.
